Miss Expatria: The Winner
After a week of getting to know Miss Expatria better, and lots of entertaining comments, the time has come to announce the winner.
After a week of getting to know Miss Expatria better, and lots of entertaining comments, the time has come to announce the winner.
I have recently had the pleasure of getting to know Christine, better known 'round the Internets as Miss Expatria. She writes the blog of the same name, as well as the hilarious blog, Unfortunate Hotels, which is a collection of the worst hotels on the web.
For me, it was love at first read, because she loves travel (check), France (check) and Italy (checkmate). She actually divides her time between France and Italy. We haven't had the pleasure of meeting in person, yet, but that will all be changing, because as luck would have it we will both be in Rome at the end of May. So, be afraid Rome, be very afraid!!
Christine has written a book, cleverly titled Miss Expatria, about her experiences leading up to and living in Italy and she was gracious enough to agree to an interview and give away a free copy of said book here on My Mélange- cause that's what we do here.
And let me just say, that I think you should all run out and buy a copy of this book! Now. For those of you who don't want to wait, you can buy a copy of Miss Expatria in my Amazon Store.
Without further ado, here is our interview:
MM: Give us a brief synopsis of the book, if you would.
ME: You know, I am a professional writer and this is the one thing I find so hard to summarize, because it's about ME. Let's give it a shot: In 2002 I broke up with my boyfriend of seven years, and moved to Italy two days later. Miss Expatria chronicles my time spent first in an empty palazzo by the sea, where I got my act together; and then in Rome, where I met the Gay Mafia; dated a Count; ate the most incredible food and lost 60 pounds; and fell in love with a writer who lived in the South of France and whom I met up with in Barcelona, Venice and Paris, among other places. Then I lost my job, and was forced into exile in New York for a year. The book ends not only with my triumphant return to the Continent, but the epiphany I had upon stepping on Roman soil again about what is important in life.
MM: How did the name Miss Expatria come about?
ME: From my boyfriend, the aforementioned writer from the South of France. He's a master of brainstorming. I wanted to call the book Cambio Change Wechsel, both because of the prevalence of the signs in popular tourist destinations and my addiction to changing everything from the layout of my bedroom to the course of my life. But, the name has come to personify for me who I want to be, who I am at my happiest moments, and who people that do not live the life I live perceive me to be.
MM: Why do you refer to yourself as a travel guru? Why do you love travel so much?
ME: Travel guru - that's just on my LinkedIn profile! To use an ever-so-charming British term, I was taking the piss. I'm not good at being serious. I prefer the tagline on my blog - The Internet's leading enabler of travel addiction - because I have the awesome power to make people make rash, fabulous travel decisions, and I am totally and completely drunk with that power.
Why do I love travel so much? I'm not sure why. I was on the move from every three days to every six weeks or so during a significant portion of my childhood, when I was in two national touring companies of Annie; and then I didn't travel anywhere until I went to Paris when I worked for Ralph Lauren in my mid-20s. To me, being able to travel where I want, when I want and for how long I want is a huge, huge part of being a grown-up, while being strongly connected to the part of me that as a child fell in love with travel.
MM: Why Italy? What made you want to move and live there?
ME: I first went to Rome in 1999, and it felt like home. I left determined to move there. But you'll have to read the book to find out more about that! Cheeky, I am.
MM: If you could give one piece of advice to expats, what would it be?
ME: Learn the language. Whether you're more comfortable assimilating or joining the expat community, it's absolutely essential you learn the language of your new home country.
MM: What surprised you about living in Italy? How does the real thing differ from what you had expected?
ME: I had researched the hell out of living in Italy so nothing surprised me too much, nor did it differ greatly from what I was expecting. However, if I had to name something, I would say the thing that continues to surprise and delight me is the utter kindness of the people I've met there. It stops me dead in my tracks and humbles me in a way nothing else ever has.
MM: You happen to divide your time between the two places on earth I am passionate about - France and Italy. Could you tell me one thing you like and dislike about each of them?
ME: Italy: I love the people. I've met exactly one Italian I didn't care for. LITERALLY, ONE. The thing I don't like about Italy, which has nothing to do with the country per se but is more the result of my being an ex-New Yorker, is the lack of 24-hour bodegas that sell everything you could ever need.
France: Love the bakeries. The only thing I can't stand about France that includes the entire country (Paris is perfect, and therefore normally excluded) would be the open contempt sales people have for their customers, whether in a store or on a customer service phone line.
MM: Espresso or cappuccino?
ME: Ha! Neither! I'm actually not a coffee drinker. But I do go through phases where I MUST HAVE a latte macchiato in the morning - a tall glass of steamed milk with a shot of espresso, and enough sugar to kill a horse.
MM: Wine, beer or cocktail?
ME: Never beer; can't stand it. Wine, wine, wine or Veuve. But I do love me a good cocktail.
MM: Favorite pasta?
ME: My favorite pasta dish, hands down, is cacio e pepe. It's the chicken soup for my soul. I've had a lot of fancy and ridiculously good pasta dishes in my time, but cacio e pepe is the one I could eat every day for the rest of my life. I usually have to make someone take it away from me, because I'll eat it until it's gone - no matter how much of it there is.
MM: What places are on your list to visit that so far have eluded you?
ME: That crazy blue of Alaskan glaciers looks so fake in pictures that it's something I will have to see with my own eyes to believe. I want to stay in one of those cottages that stick out over the water in the South Pacific. I want my friend Anu, who understands the complexities of my Golden Days of the Raj obsession, to show me India.
Three big things on my list - Sicily, the Italian lakes region and the lavender fields of Provence - I'm visiting this summer!
MM: What one website or blog (other than mine of course) do you have to visit everyday and why? You know, the one you would die without?
ME: I absolutely cannot live without Free Will Astrology. I've been reading it every Wednesday since before the Internet was invented, back when it was printed in the Village Voice. Rob does away with the "You'll fall in love next Thursday" crap and instead feeds my constant need for inspiration.
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Now for the deets on the contest.
All you need to do is leave a comment on this post between now and midnight on April 1st! I will select a winner using the Random Number Generator on April 2nd. The winner's copy of Miss Expatria, with its sexy black cover and hot pink text will be on its way shortly after!
Thanks to Miss Expatria for the interview and the book- and good luck to you all!! Now get commenting!
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Oh, and before I let you go, I wanted to let you know that Miss Expatria needs your help with something. She has entered a contest to win her dream assignment, but she needs enough votes to qualify. You can help by clicking this link, signing up and then VOTING!! And tell all your friends to vote too!!
This is quite a surreal experience for me. I have owned, no worshiped, the book The Paris Apartment for the last 8 years. I have referred to it on many occassions. Then one day the author made a comment on my little ole blog on a post about the Vanves flea market in Paris. I was tickled pink, though I had to pinch myself and shriek like a little girl whose Daddy just bought her the pony she'd always wanted. I had to call Chris over to make sure I wasn't seeing things.
I answered her comment. Soon we were emailing back and forth and a fast cyber-friendship was born as only could be in the world wide bloggosphere. I remain both grateful and stunned. Really.
One of the reasons I love Claudia (yes, there are many), is that she is my poster child for successfully managing many facets of a business. She is an author, business owner, designer, blogger, Flea Market tour guide, consultant and a fellow Francophile.
As someone who has many creative passions, but grew up with others judging me, telling me that I was too scattered-brained and that I needed to focus on only one thing-I appreciate that she has proven those naysayers wrong! It is ok to have your eggs in more than one basket. Frankly, I know myself well enough that I would be bored doing just one thing-as I am sure Claudia would too.
I feel in this respect we are kindred spirits. Soul sisters, if you will.
So, without further ado...
As promised, here is my long-awaited interview with Claudia from The Paris Apartment. Don't forget to read all the way through to the end, where you will find the details of the contest and book giveaway.
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What is the first memory you have of being creative?
Rearranging my bedroom furniture at around 9…my parents were shocked I’d moved some pretty large pieces!
How did you fall in love with Paris?
Ah, true love…I guess it started while traveling with my family (dad worked for Air France), then sank in after college when I discovered the fleamarkets.
What can I say, I’m human, and her spell was cast! It’s definitely a love affair that hasn’t faded in the least.
How old were you when you made your first trip there and what spoke to you most on that first trip?
Most of my early memories were kept alive cause my Dad took films of our travels. I think seeing them over the years has planted a seed cause it was pretty picturesque.
He got us at the top of Notre Dame, sitting on the gargoyles, and sailing boats in the fountain at the Luxembourg Gardens.
When did you know you could make a living from your passion?
As soon as I thought of the name! It helped me define my direction and point of view. Up until that point, I had a mishmash of ideas but nothing specific.
How did The Paris Apartment come about?
In 1993 I quit the corporate world and rented a store in NYC. I had no idea what it would be, other than Claudia’s Clutter and it was a hodge podge of furniture from my parent’s attic and the flea.
Once the name hit me it was like I knew exactly what to do. The store was only 300 square feet so I had to focus on something specific. I was fascinated by all things boudoir and saw it as a fun, untapped niche market.
What was harder than you expected when you first went into business?
Keeping Books!
There are so many facets to your business. You ran a retail store, you do flea market trips, interior design consults and makeovers, you wrote a book, you write a blog and now you are designing and selling your own furniture. Which is your favorite and why?
It’s sort of a curse cause I only put a layer on each here and there. It’s a part of entrepreneurship I guess, so much to do with only so much creative time.
I wish I could focus more on each cause I do love working on them all. My blog is the most fun probably, since it’s interactive and my bloggers give me so much love.
It’s a great creative outlet for no reason at all except pleasure.
What are you currently working on? What is new and in the works?
I have about 6 books in the works, everything from Apartments in Paris to Bachelor Boudoirs. I never seem to finish any of them which is a bit frustrating!
Officially in the works is a furniture line called Boudoir Noir, based on designs from old movies and stills. We hope to debut it at the Maison et Objet next year.
The new web boutique will be launching any day and we’re introducing a line of unfinished furniture. The list goes on and on, everything’s a work in progress!
What is one thing you haven’t done, but hope to do one day?
Have a great partnership and create an affordable organic furniture and bedding line with a major manufacturer.
Your work inspires many, including myself. Where does a talent like you get your inspiration?
Wow, thank you! I get inspiration everywhere, from nature to magazines, graffiti and architectural details.
I read everything I can and watch old films, listen to 20’s music and surf the web. I love to learn about other cultures’ dances, traditions, colors and heritages.
What advice can you give other creative souls out there about making a career out of doing what you love?
Don’t judge it by how much money you make, judge it by whether you want to do it everyday.
I’d suggest getting someone to do the books while you’re out being fabulously free and focused on your art.
Follow your instincts and you’ll create a signature that’s completely unique.
Get as much publicity as possible and try to focus on something specific you can be known for. Be a big fish in a small pond!
Can you share a debacle or a lesson you learned from a bad experience?
Oh, well I face and try to dodge debacles everyday! I guess my greatest lesson is to put things in writing.
Quality control has been my biggest challenge because I manufacturer all over the world and can’t always see the finished product before it goes out. If there’s an error, it’s a domino effect creating mega debacles.
And I loathe debacles!
We all know you love flea markets. Which is your favorite and why?
I adore the NY flea but it’s in peril and may close this year. In Paris I’d have to say Clignancourt cause after all these years I’ve finally learned all of the nooks and crannies.
Now I know where the bargains are, and they’re the best in the world!
It’s a city of its own with a history and heritage that’s treasured by Parisians. I’ve been collecting early pictures of it for a book…See, just another work in progress!
What has been your most fabulous, most extraordinary, deal of the century bargain from a flea market? What did you do with it?
Everything at the Paris fleamarket is an extraordinary deal of the century in my mind! But for the really wild stuff, I always seem to find those pieces when shopping with clients.
I try to be gracious not let them know I’m freaking inside! Last week I finally scored a pair of chairs for $20 each from a ratty FL thrift shop.
People were offering me hundreds for them on the way out but I think I’ll enjoy them at home for a while.
How about the strangest thing you have seen at a flea market?
Fleas are microcosms for strange things aren’t they? For me it was a 70’s photo album of a woman who was a sort of sex symbol wanna be. She was lounging all over her very fancy and frilly apartment.
The one consistent prop in every shot was her taxidermy stuffed cat. She put it everywhere from on her lap to the top of the highboy. Seeing it in the same position over a hundred times was a dead giveaway!
When you see something you love when shopping for a client, do you have a hard time parting with it? Do you often keep it and look for something else for the client instead?
I’ve tried not to get too attached to things and if there’s one then there’s probably another somewhere close by. I always let the client have the piece cause I can’t keep it all!
Where else have you lived besides NY and Florida? Do you ever dream of living in Paris?
I grew up in NJ (my parents are still in the house) and went to college in PA. I lived as an au pair in Paris after college but since then I’ve been stateside.
I do dream of living there, or at least having an apartment when I visit! But then again, everywhere I go in the world I think, “I could live here”!
Are you fluent in French?
Not at all, but somehow I manage, it comes pretty easily. I brush up before I go by watching French movies and listening to it on the radio.
What are the things that you can’t miss doing when visiting Paris?
Laduree, hitting every single flea, the Marais, croissants, BHV, a picnic on the bridge, exploring a new neighborhood, and riding the bus aimlessly.
What is your favorite area/arrondissement of Paris?
I’d have to say the Marais because it has so much history as it’s the oldest part of the city. It feels like a little village and has at least 3 glorious mansions that were homes to the great Salon Hostesses of the day.
What is your favorite food to eat in Paris?
I love sandwiches on baguettes. I usually get tuna or egg and tomato. Not sure how I don’t gain weight cause everyday I get a croissant, a café au lait, an entire baguette and bottle of wine.
Sometimes I share that! I love to cook when I’m there so I make pasta salad or fish if I’m renting an apartment.
Do you have a favorite restaurant or café?
I love all the Costes Brothers’ restaurants and cafes. There are a few at the Hotel Costes, the Louvre, and Le Boudoir on Rue de Rivoli.
There are tons of others too, we find them everywhere. Some are designed by Jacques Garcia so there’s the double pleasure of beautiful decor and a great meal.
If you could have dinner with one person dead/alive who would it be and why?
Tough question! Probably Josephine Baker. I love her life. Her spirit and struggle and the way she broke barriers and boundaries inspires me.
I’d like to ask her about her life and times. Of course, Madame Pompadour ties with her and I’d ask her all the same questions!
Of all my accomplishments, I am proudest of…
Hmmm, that’s interesting cause it’s a bit therapeutic. I guess I should feel I’ve accomplished something, so let me think.
I guess that I haven’t given up and have managed to work on this just about every day for over a decade.
And it’s been a job I created and maintain, so there’s that.
There’s so much I want to do and don’t seem to ever really accomplish much of anything in my opinion. Maybe I’ll rethink that, thanks!
The economy has taken a sharp downturn here in the US, what advice can you offer folks on a tight budget about decorating rooms in their homes in The Paris Apartment style?
*Minimize and edit. It’s a good time to downsize to just the things you adore and have meaning to you.
*More than adding to a room, sometimes what’s needed is to take something away (same principal when Coco Chanel says to take off one piece of jewelry before you go out)
*Even in a bad economy you can have the best of everything. Start with your bedding.
*Satisfy your shopping urges by supporting the fleamarkets where you can get bargains on vintage pillowcases and linens.
*Shop for linens and dishes at places like Marshall’s and Ikea for staples like rugs and bookshelves.
*At local fabric shops, cottons, velvets, shirting are just a couple dollars a yard. You can completely change the vibe by making curtains yourself (use ironing tape if you don’t want to sew). If you’re in NY then there’s the garment district, in the burbs there’s Wal Mart or Jo Ann fabrics.
*Paint your ceiling an old traditional color like turquoise or Chinese red, or just pearly over white.
*Add a great plant to set a tone. Potted Bamboo is really striking and mod.
*Rearrange what you have and use items you normally save for special occasions. Everyday is one!
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Thank You so much Claudia, for agreeing to the interview. It was a pleasure learning more about you! We have so many things in common (keeping books!?), it is no wonder we are friends.
Now comes the fun part. It is your turn to leave a comment or a question for Claudia below and you will be entered into the drawing. Claudia has graciously agreed to give away a signed copy of her extraordinary book, The Paris Apartment!
You have until midnight EST on Saturday, December 13th. The winner will be announced on Monday December 15th!
Bonne Chance!
I met Sognatrice(her name is really Michelle)through her blog, Bleeding Espresso. She is a someone I admire because she moved from the US to Italy and I can live vicariously through her. She is an inspiration, not only because she is an Italian expat, but also because she is a freelance writer...something else I look forward to doing. She has been so helpful in giving me suggestions on how to get started in the business and she has been a loyal and faithful reader of my blog, for which I am very grateful. She is friendly, kind hearted and funny. She has a unique perspective on both the Italian and American cultures, and I wanted you to get to know her. Here goes:
Sognatrice,tell me a little about yourself and why you moved to Italy? You know…your ‘story.’
I’m a 30-year-old American who has been living in Calabria, the toe of the boot, for 4 years. I first came on a genealogical search, looking for information about my paternal grandmother’s side of the family; I fell in love with the village and moved here a year later basically because I wanted to. A year and a half later, I met my fiancé, and I’m still here with no plans of moving back to the States.
I’ve written a bit about my move on my blog here and here, and I’ve also done previous interviews here and here, which also touch on this topic.
What is the one thing that frustrated/irritated you about moving to and living in Italy?
General disorganization is probably the biggest annoyance—thinking you can go and get something accomplished in one visit is just setting yourself up for disappointment. Also the reluctance on the part of Italians to use the phone for anything outside of social purposes; they always seem to want you to come in to do the smallest thing like pick up a paper instead of just mailing it. I’ve actually had government office employees tell me this is because you can’t trust the postal service, but let’s not get into Poste Italiane.
What has your experience been with the Italian people? Do Italians dislike Americans?
I’ve had an extremely positive experience with Italians, especially as it regards my being American. Although many don’t like current American foreign policy, most Italians can understand that we ordinary citizens aren’t truly to blame. From my experience, Italians are generally welcoming and always ready to practice their English, even if it’s just “hello.”
Do you miss home more or less than you thought you would?
I’d say about what I thought. Before I moved here, I hadn’t lived in my hometown for ten years, so I was used to not being home-home. Granted there are some conveniences like 24 hour shopping that aren’t here, but honestly, you get over those things pretty quickly or you move back, I think.
How does what you thought it would be like to live in Italy differ from what it’s really like to live in Italy?
This may sound strange, but I never really spent a lot of time imagining what it would be like to live in Italy, so it’s hard to answer this. Living in Italy really is just like living everywhere else—with great food and gorgeous scenery of course.
What is your favorite Italian dish to cook?
I love when my Calabrian stuffed lasagne is finished; there’s great satisfaction in knowing I created it and it’s *so* tasty!
To eat at a restaurant?
Seafood, seafood, seafood. Calamari especially.
What is your favorite Italian food?
Kind of boring, but I really like a basic Caprese salad (tomato, mozzarella, basil) with fresh bread.
What is your favorite American food, what do you miss most that you can’t get in Italy?
My favorite American food is pretty much anything my mom makes, and that’s also what I miss most that I can’t get here. Thanksgiving dinner in particular (but my mom sends me lots of provisions to make my own!).
How does the pizza compare?
In my hometown I was lucky to have a Sicilian making my favorite pizza, so actually the pizza isn’t that different here, but the choice of toppings differs greatly—pepperoni, for instance, doesn’t exist here, and if you ask for “peperoni,” you’ll get green or red peppers.
What is your favorite Italian drink? American drink?
Well espresso on the Italian side, obviously. American drink? What I wouldn’t give for a Mountain Dew (doesn’t exist here)!
How does the Italian diet compare to the diet of the Americans?
Italians tend to eat everything either fresh or fresh then quickly frozen—very little preservatives. Fast food is almost non-existent where I am. Also red meat isn’t eaten very often at least in my house. I eat *much* healthier here, and my body thanks me (I’ve lost over 30 pounds since I’ve been here without “dieting” per se).
Do you speak Italian? How long did it take you? Do you think Italian is easier than English to learn?
I do speak Italian, and I’d say that after about 6 months, I could get along pretty well in most situations. That said, it probably took me a good two years to feel really comfortable speaking in Italian with someone I didn’t know, so it’s all a matter of individual judgment. I don’t think Italian is very difficult to learn at its basics—the nuances, though, will take me a lifetime (especially never having had any formal training). English is probably harder, but it’s hard to say since it’s my native tongue.
What are your favorite things to do in Italy?
Walk around and look, take photos, talk to older people who know a lot about the local history.
What is the biggest stereotype that the Italians have about Americans?
I’d say a lot of them still think that Americans are wealthy, a stereotype stemming from the days when Italians left for America and then sent money back to relatives—now it’s encouraged by all the “things” Americans seem to own.
What is the biggest stereotype that the Americans have about Italians?
Probably that they sit around all day, drink coffee or wine, and eat all while talking and singing. Loudly.
What is the biggest similarity between the Italian & American culture?
Passion—both cultures have it, but we just direct it at different things for the most part.
Biggest difference?
The fact that it’s common for children here to live with their parents well into their 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen in the States, but here, it’s almost expected.
If you could change one thing about Italian culture what would it be?
The resistance to change. Italy seems to prefer that the entire world test something out first before it’ll try it—and even then it probably won’t.
If you could change one thing about American culture what would it be?
Rampant consumerism. It makes me physically sick.
If you could travel anywhere in Italy, where would it be and why?
I’d love to go to Sardinia; I’ve heard it’s like another world over there (in a good way!), and it seems like one I’d enjoy. Emma makes it sound so inviting!
Other than friends and family, what is one thing that you miss about America?
The strength of the dollar. Very depressing since I still work with companies in the States and get paid in dollars.
Thanks so much Sognatrice! It has been great fun getting to know you, and I look forward to the day we can meet!
photo courtesy of autographedforyou.com
I am starting a special series of interviews with some selected friends who have experiences with both European and American culture. I thought it would be interesting for my readers to get to know these friends and shed some light on the similarities and differences between cultures, countries and life.
Elke is a good friend that grew up in Germany, but now lives near me in Poughkeepsie NY. We have become fast friends and I am sure you be able to tell from her interview...why that is. (hint: it has to do with her favorite place to travel). She will shed some light on the German culture. You may wonder to yourself...gee she looks alot like Elke Sommers, well...that is Elke Sommers. This has been an on-going joke...and now this her punishment for not getting me a picture for the last 3 months. It was either that, or a picture of my Westie, so I hope she is happy with my choice.
MM: Tell me about yourself & your family.
E: My name is Elke and I am 39 years old. Born and raised in Germany, I am the oldest of three children and the only one who decided to move to a different country much to the chagrin of my family and friends. I currently live in Poughkeepsie, NY with my wonderful husband and amazing 13 year old son. My family is my top priority, so I work only part-time for a Homecare Agency. I have a passion for traveling, love to read, be around my friends, cook and bake, have picnics on one of the amazing grounds of our old Mid-Hudson Valley mansions, attend theater and musical productions and most important of all take care of my little family.
MM: Tell us about your childhood.
E: I grew up in a little town called Arzfeld, which is part of the beautiful Eifel region with my parents and younger brother and sister. In our town everyone knew each other and there were plenty of children on our road to play with. My mom was a stay- at-home mom and because of that we grew up with a strong sense of family values and morals. We loved to play outside, in the fields or woods surrounding our home. We walked to our elementary school every day and as we got older took the bus to a neighboring town for Middle/ High School. Our town was small and save enough to be negotiated by foot. We could walk to the post office, shops, doctor offices etc. We had a playground right on our road where we spend numerous hours of the day.
MM: Describe your personality.
E: I am a fun- loving, outgoing person. I consider myself organized and loyal. To be fair I have to mention, that I am reluctant to big changes and have a stubborn, willful streak. People tell me I am sweet, nice and funny..Boy are they in for a surprise. I must like adventure to a certain degree because I am always up to explore new places and look at me I moved across the Atlantic(what was I thinking???)
MM: What is one misconception about your culture?
E: Well where to start? I guess what has been bothering me for a while now is the assumption floating around that all German woman are big. I fit in a size 4 dress and my sister is probably below a 0. My friends are all skinny and I am not sure where this rumor started. We really are not all huge, beer hoisting girls that bust out of their clothes. We come in all sizes (wee, not so wee and friggin huge).
MM: What is the one thing that frustrated/irritated you about living in Germany?
E: At the time I was living there the endless days of rain. I do have to say that has changed though due to global warming or El Nino. Right now I would gladly trade places as far as the weather is concerned.
MM: What are the Germans most known for in your opinion?
E: Good beer and food, cleanliness and most Germans are incredibly industrious.
MM: What has your experience been with Americans? Do German people hate Americans?
E: Most Americans that I have encountered have a very open and friendly mentality. Germans are more reserved and private. I hope I am not stepping on too many toes here but I think Americans can be too boisterous and loud, especially when traveling and seem to lack the thoughtfulness to leave their habits and shorts and sneakers at home when traveling to a European country. That said Germans can be incredibly annoying tourists as well. I have taken vacations with both..and was ready to run the opposite way a couple of times. German people in general love Americans. There are so many US military posts all over Germany that everybody lives and socializes with each other. English is our mandatory second language and apart from some political views or climates there is no resentment toward Americans. You can’t even find a piece of teenager clothing anymore, that does not have some English slogan on it, which does not make sense all the time and often amuses my husband and son, who are trying to figure out what it was meant to say.
MM: What was your initial impression of the US and its people? How is that different from what you expected?
E: I thought everything was very contemporary. It did not seem like things were made to last. Everything appeared to have been put up quickly and I was not too impressed with the trash on the roadside on the way from JFK airport in New York City. Coming from an Old World country this was quite the culture shock. Everything here seemed so different and frankly scary to me. We have so much history and definitely less malls and shopping centers in Germany. I was completely overwhelmed and just wanted to turn around and go home. As far as lifestyles go I was shocked to see how many crazy hours American’s have to work and how fast paced and stressful life over here is. Europe is much more laid back and allows more time to spend with family.
MM: I am proud to be German because...
E: I love my country, it is truly beautiful. So many nice places to visit and incredible history to learn from. We had some dark times in our history and came back, compassionate and humble.
MM: What is your favorite German dish to make? Maybe a signature dish?
E: You will be surprised it is not Sauerkraut. It is Rotkohl(red cabbage)my favorite German vegetable and homemade spaetzle(Bavarian pasta)
MM: What is your favorite German food?
E: I love Sauerbraten and Jaeger schnitzel
MM: What is your favorite American food?
E: Believe it or not I am a sucker for a good hamburger.
MM: Who taught you to cook?
E: I need to give credit to my mom for that. Though she seldom had me at the stove doing the actual cooking I was always in the kitchen around her and observed and memorized.
MM: Who is your favorite historic German person and why?
E: That is a hard one... Have been out of school for too long. I admire Ludwig van Beethoven. He was the most amazing composer and his music still inspires people all around the world.
MM: Favorite Museum?
E: Smithsonian museum in Washington D.C.
MM: Favorite artist?
E: Van Gogh
MM: Favorite music/musician?
E: My favorite 2 men are both very much into music. So I get to listen and enjoy a wide variety of different styles (some I like more then others). I like to listen to Andrea Bocelli and his American counter part Josh Groban .
MM: Favorite movie?
E: I really liked the movie Chocolat and The Notebook.
MM: Favorite book/author?
E: 'Wish you well' by David Baldacci. I also am a huge fan of John Steinbeck and Barbara Kingsolver. I love to read and it would take me a while to list them all so I will spare you further details .You have some amazing literature and writers in this country.
MM: Favorite historic monument?
E: It has to be the “World War II” Memorial in Washington D.C. It is very impressive and well designed. I was impressed by most of the monuments in Washington DC and Arlington Cemetery. We had the benefit of enjoying all of this while we were living in Virginia for 8 years.
MM: Favorite restaurant in Germany, why?
E: A little restaurant called “Alte Abtei” in Pruem a town about 20 minutes from my parent’s town. You get very good traditional German dishes there with great presentation and the ambiance is very nice. It is family owned and you can have a good time as a group there or have a romantic dinner for two.
MM: Favorite area of your country?
E: I love Bavaria. The country side is gorgeous, the mountains (Alps) are very impressive and you can visit King Ludwig’s castles (the Cinderella Castle in Walt Disney World is modeled after one of them). Another amazing place to visit is Rothenburg ob der Tauber, a walled city about 3 hours outside of Frankfurt dating back to the medieval times.
MM: What is your favorite drink?
E: I like girlie drinks, like Pina Coladas or Fuzzy Navels. But I also treasure a good glass of wine.
MM: If you could have dinner with one person dead or alive who would it be..why?
E: Brad Pitt because he is cute. Just kidding! I would like to talk to Princess Diana of Wales. I think she was a wonderful person and had so much to give.
MM: Which languages do you speak? Which was the hardest to learn?
E: German and English. They are equally hard to learn. German grammar is a nightmare but English can throw you for a loop too. It was a challenge but I love to learn new things.
MM: What are your favorite things to do in your country?
E: Visiting with my family and friends and of course traveling. Remember I am a “nomad” at heart.
MM: How does the German diet compare to the diet of the Americans?
E: We eat a lot of food with gravy's and sauces. Some of our dishes can be heavy but our lifestyle is more active and we eat our big meals mainly for lunch and have a small dinner. I find our food very well seasoned and our desserts less sweet then Americans. Just like in America we have regional cuisine and some things I like and some I don’t.
MM: What is the biggest stereotype about German people?
E: That Germans are rude, cold and not very welcoming, and it is a far cry from that. Also our diet consists of more then just Sauerkraut.
MM: What is the biggest stereotype that the Germans have about Americans?
E: I guess a widespread conception is that Americans view themselves as better than anyone else in the world and therefore can do whatever pleases them.
MM: What is the biggest similarity between the German & American culture?
E: We are both western cultures so many of our beliefs are similar. The same goes for daily routines and loyalties.
MM: Biggest difference?
E: Family values and work ethics.
MM: If I could change one thing about Germany or German culture what would it be?
E: History. I would love to rewrite history and change some of the world views of Germany and its people to the rest of the world.
MM: If you could travel anywhere, where would it be?
E: I want to go back to Italy. I also am interested in traveling to Thailand. We have traveled extensively in Europe and went to Africa for our honeymoon.
MM: Up to this point, where has your favorite place to travel been?
E: Italy. Hands down!!!!
MM: What culture do you wish to know more about?
E: Asia.
MM: Of all my accomplishments, I am proudest of...
E: Being a mom and learning to live comfortably in a new world and fit in.
MM: I think being German is wonderful because...
E: We are proud and industrious people with a strong sense of loyalty and analytical minds.
Thank you Elke for your time and your honest, heartfelt answers! I hope my readers enjoyed getting to know you as much as I have.
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